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INTERFAITH RADIO deals with a wide range of issues where theology intersects with public policy, including social justice, war and peace, electoral politics, separation of church (synagogue/mosque, etc.) and state, human rights, sexual and reproductive issues, racial/ethnic discrimination, women's rights and many morevoices and viewpoints seldom heard in other media.
GLOBAL EXCHANGE. An educational and activist organization dedicated to creating direct ties with peoples around the world. The site has an excellent news service.
PUBLIC CONVERSATIONS seeks to foster a more inclusive, empathic and collaborative society by promoting constructive conversations and relationships among those who have differing values, world views, and positions about a wide range of divisive public issues.
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BOOKS
The Sacred Balance: Rediscovering Our Place in Nature, by David Suzuki. This book directly addresses the reality of "Interbeing" that we've been talking about in these web pages, an introduction to the interdependent way of looking at things.
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Compassion, by Marshall Rosenberg. How to bring peace into the way we interact with others, rather than the defensive or aggressive ways many of us are accustomed to.
The End of Poverty, by Jeffrey D. Sachs. It may seem too easy to cite a popular book by a world-famous economist, introduced by an even more famous self-proclaimed rock star. But it would also be too easy not to read the book, which in fact takes us to the very heart of the idea of Interbeing.
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Communication and Compassion
It’s all about how we think about each other, how we talk to each other. After the 2004 presidential electionthe extent and intensity of disrespect, name-calling and bashing engaged in by the candidates to which they subjected each other and the public, showing all the maturity of elementary school childrenmany people cried, ENOUGH!” Civility, respect, honesty and basic human decency seems to have been dropped from our social culture, and it’s time to restore it.
It’s time we stopped looking at people who have different views from our own as the “other,” or the “enemy.” We need to listen and attempt to understand where that person, those people, are coming from. Expressions like “Walk a mile in their shoes,” and “There but for the grace of God go I,” have a point. The Vietnamese Buddhist monk and teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh asks, “Can we look at each other and recognize ourselves in each other?” In a poem entitled Please Call Me By My True Names, he expresses our interconnection in this way:
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I am the mayfly metamorphosing on the surface of the river,
and I am the bird which, when spring comes,
arrives in time to eat the mayfly.
I am the frog swimming happily in the clear water of a pond,
and I am also the grass-snake who, approaching in silence,
feeds itself on the frog.
I am the 12-year-old girl, refugee on a small boat,
who throws herself into the ocean after being raped by a sea pirate,
and I am the pirate, my heart not yet capable of seeing and loving. |
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This is one of several verses describing what he calls “interbeing,” the relationship between ourselves and the “other.” Were we to have lived the life of that person we are so critical of, we might be thinking and acting in the very same way. We can be just as self-righteous as those we judge so harshly for their hard and fast opinions. If we persist in our arrogant unwillingness to listen and to talk with our “enemy,” we are not likely to find a square inch of common ground on which to build a stable family unit, nation or peaceful world society.
Fortunately, there are many people and groups engaged in building bridges to bring together “enemies,” listening and talking from the heart to find cooperative, nonviolent ways of living together on this one small planet. We’ve noted a few of the numerous groups working to bring people together for common dreams and goals. |
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